foolish girl

Well I can't quite believe that K. egged me on as much as she did. I think it was more a product of that second Glass of wine and her giggles that made me lose reason.



Yes, I committed the deadly act of putting an ad in alt.com. Shoot me now, I merely did it on a giggle girl fest of what horrific ads I would get. And yes I has received quite enough to make me hold my tummy in hysterical laughter.



Funny thing was all the local folk that did response and actually knew me in real life. Most were surprised that I was looking for a submissive partner. Most thought I was off limits.


One particular gentleman I even on occasion played with lightly, always seem to have flirted with him but he was a submissive butterfly and me well my dance card was always full.


He writes to me this evening say "Yes!! I do know you, but I thought you were off limits because of your partner." Yeah I am a switch and yes that would be my husband but I do play with plenty of folks.



Of course social butterfly submissive writes another jab " I've have a secret crush on you for years, but you intimidated the crap out of me." WTF? What me little ol me?



I sit here now aghast and really wonder what do I project of myself. Does the fact that I switch in public with my husband throw off a bad vibe? That can't be since I end up topping at most of these events.



What the hell intimidates people around me? I need to work on more social skills in that case.

Social butterfly wants to meet for dinner, I think I need to grill him more and get answers.



But the most surprising thing is that I have gotten better repsonses to this ad then craig list, go figure.




Of course the majority of them being much older then I was looking for, but hey if the chemistry is there then I have no problem with it.